"One of the things all this research shows you is how humble you have to be in the face of the complexity of human nature. We’ve got a 100 billion neurons in the brain, and it’s just phenomenally complicated. You take a little child who says, “I’m a tiger,” and pretends to be a tiger. Well that act of imagination—conflating this thing “I” with this thing “tiger”—is phenomenally complicated. No computer could ever do that, but it’s happening below the level of awareness. It seems so easy to us. And so one of the things these people learn is they contain these hidden strengths, but at the same time they have to be consciously aware of how modest they can be in understanding themselves and proceed on that basis. "
David Brooks, author of The Social Animal